Rules and Important Info to Know

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  Having good hygiene is a requirement. If you come over and are not clean, you will be required to shower (with unscented products) prior to our session. This will come out of the paid time. Please be prepared. 

You will be provided with clean towels/Washcloth and unscented hygiene products to ensure you are clean upon leaving. Whether or not you choose to use this is entirely up to you.

  You will address me as Mistress. Any other term will be admonished. Punishment may be imposed as a result. 

You will obey my rules designed for both of our safety. If you break this rule in anyway, I reserve the right to deny services. Respect goes both ways. My goal is to provide you with a safe experience. If you show any indications of being unsafe for me, our sessions will cease immediately. No exceptions.

  The first rule of Fight club is we don't talk about fight club. If you require discretion around our sessions, simply let me know in the intake form, or via the 'Send me an email' link. Every piece of The Kind Mistress interaction has been built around discretion. The URL is discreet. The LLC is discreet and lists as Lifestyle Coaching. The email has a similarly discreet label. Your relationship status is not my business. If you need me to address you in specific ways, you simply need to let me know. 

  I utilize the traffic light system. This will be the standard unless otherwise discussed and agreed upon. 

If you are unfamiliar with this system, let me know. I will happily explain.

  You may choose any session that best suits your desired experience. There is a required introductory session. This will either be a video conference, or meeting in person. If you choose to meet in person, I will appear in regular clothing, not Mistress clothing. 

Regardless of the session type, the appt will be billable. You will pay prior to the session. 

  All payments are required upfront. You have options of how you would like to pay. I offer PayPal and Venmo currently. I can provide additional options upon request. 

The billing is all labeled 'TKM Coaching' or 'TKM Lifestyle Coaching'. 

  I only offer sessions for areas of Kink I am confident I can do safely. Your safety is my top concern. 

If you have a particular kink you are looking to explore, please reach out and ask. I will do my best to provide a quick response with definitive next actions. 

If you ask for something that I do not have enough training in to feel confident I can offer safely, I will provide you with the opportunity to fund my education on the topic, or to choose a different kind of session. 

  I have a French Bulldog who requires pets as entering the space tax. If you would prefer not to pay the tax, please inform me prior to our session. If you are not comfortable with a dog being in the overall space, I am not the Mistress for you. He will not be in the space during out sessions. But this is his home. 

He is special needs and wears pants as he cannot control his potty. He is very sweet. He does not bark. And everyone is fair game when it comes to him requesting attention.

  There are so many aspects of Kink, that I cannot provide all the needed accessories for every type of kink. I have many options for adding needed items to a gift registry or wishlist. If there is a particular item you need, email me prior to your session and we will discuss how to make that happen. You can order from my wish lists that are discreet, or I can order for you once you have sent tribute for the cost of the acquisition. 

  The moment that you arrive, you will be placed in sub mode. We will discuss the proposed scene during our introductory session. If you require a full breakdown of what will happen, this will occur during our initial introduction. I do my best work in the moment as the inspiration strikes. Staying within the established boundaries is always my priority. I can work within either parameter. Just communicate with me what you need.